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LoginThis is the first one from me, sharing my learnings and guidance on dating after divorce in your 40s. I found myself officially single three days before lockdown March Within a few months I realised that potentially the only way I was going to meet a new man was via dating apps. I had a couple of lessons from fellow single friends Liz and Emma and took the plunge, once covid rules allowed obviously. Be clear about what you want from your next relationship and ascertain this in the first few conversations. I am very clear about the fact that I need a relationship with a man who is financially secure. I try to pick this one apart in the first date with clever interview type questions! And a lack of money is something that can be hidden. I failed with one guy in the summer of
How ironic, that a Wedding Planner is now a Divorce Coach—but it just goes to show you that we are all multi-faceted and multi-talented women in the business world! In my work with women—particularly those of us over 40—divorce is not uncommon. Many women I know over 40 are on their second or even third husband. Find the right dating service or app. Generally, paid apps will yield better results because the commitment of a paid app means people are more serious about finding a partner. Consider the idea that free apps allow people to secretly browse and date without leaving a financial footprint—possibly allowing married people to cheat, which would be a dealbreaker for your dating life.
Dating in midlife is a scary proposition for most of us. You might be worried about the rules of game, like who makes the first contact? How do you decide who pays for a date? And what does it mean if you let someone buy you dinner? How do you decide who is a good candidate after the miserable fail of the last relationship?
It might be daunting but it's well worth putting yourself out there again. Ariane Resnick, CNC is a mental health writer, certified nutritionist, and wellness author who advocates for accessibility and inclusivity. Ann-Louise T. Out of all the major life changes we can experience, going through a divorce is one of the toughest. No matter how long you were married, the act of permanently parting from one of the most important people in life can be incredibly jarring, hard, and heartbreaking.
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