How to start dating again after a long time

Finding love again: 5 tips for successfully dating after a long-term relationship

Last Updated: May 24, Fact Checked. Sarah Schewitz, Psy. She received her Psy. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology practice helping couples and individuals improve and change their patterns in love and relationships. There are 11 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed , times. This article is based on an interview with our licensed clinical psychologist and relationship coach, Sarah Schewitz, founder of Couples Learn. Check out the full interview here. Prioritize your own personal growth before entering a relationship.

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The end of a long-term relationship can feel like a bereavement, whether or not you instigated the breakup. You won't get over your ex overnight, especially if you lived together, but you can take steps to come to terms with the split and start dating again. Remember, dates don't have to lead to a relationship and it's totally acceptable to just go out for fun, as long as everyone knows the situation. Below, psychologists offer their advice for recovering from a breakup and preparing to re-enter the dating scene. Greg Kushnick, a psychologist from New York City, told Newsweek that you should talk to people in your life who can help you gain perspective on your previous relationship. You should try to understand what went wrong, which of your partner's behaviors you didn't like, and which of your own behaviors were inappropriate. Friends and others close to you can "help you with your blind spots.

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Barbara is a writer and speaker who is passionate about mental health, overall wellness, and women's issues. If you've experienced a breakup, but have given yourself time to heal, you may feel ready to trust someone with your heart again. How do you get back to navigating the dating world while protecting your mental and emotional health? In the aftermath of a breakup , you might be tempted to date for validation.

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A Nervous Singles Guide To Dating After A Long Break

Consider your priorities. Focus on the traits that matter, like kindness and integrity. Remember that money or good looks may not last or guarantee happiness. Drop the baggage. Let go of your past.

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