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LoginAs a person who goes on maybe one date every two months let me just say this: dating is stupid and I hate it. Because dating is hard, and with the festive season approaching you might be tempted to reach out to all sorts of toxic people. Being cautious when your heart is an enormous hopeful flesh bag is hard. So be smart. Be prepared not to put up with any old shit. Be very sure of what you deserve. Red flags include: acting indifferently, refusing to make room in their life for you, being kind of rude, or doing odd or unexplained behaviours at you. So practice slowing down, practice managing your expectations, and try to base your hopes on how they act in reality rather than in your most hopeful dreams. Mix it the fuck up. Stop dating all the exact same person what are just dressed up in slightly different skin bags.
In the case of stereotypical "bad boys," I'm talking about someone who is attractive, charming, charismatic and a bit rebellious or mysterious. Same old same old can be boring. Same old nice guy routine can be boring. Playing another round of " what's your favorite color? It leads to chasing, it leads to one sidedness and it leads to frustrating mixed signals. That's because at the end of the day a bad boy is really just a term for someone who has their own agenda.
Among the frustrating patterns that we can experience is the allure of the infamous bad boy. The bad boy is confident. One of the reasons that bad boys are so attractive in the first place is that they exude magnetic confidence. Sexual attraction. Broken wing syndrome. Law of intermittent rewards.
So how do we break the cycle? I am proud, happy and at peace in saying, that I have successfully recovered from this conditioning. And it happened organically , because of the time I have taken to connect to my spiritual side.
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