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College Party Hook Ups: Consent, Apps, and Double Standards

Whether sexual tension has been brewing between colleagues all year or the spiked punched got people feeling a little frisky and in the mood for some sexy holiday party hookups. But what good are these sexy holiday party hookup stories if we don't share them with the world? We teamed up with The Single Society to share the most scandalous office party experiences that left these women feeling naughty AND nice. My husband's company had a photo booth at their annual holiday party when we had one of our sexy holiday hookups. After a few cocktails, we made our way into the booth to take some pictures. I was sitting on his lap and he started to get a little frisky. I pulled up my dress, unzipped his pants, and we had sex in the photo booth while the entire company was right on the other side of the curtain. I had been crushing on a guy that I worked with for quite some time, and when our company holiday party rolled around the chemistry between us was becoming increasingly obvious. After our secret Santa exchange, a few cocktails, and a potluck all the employees retired to our company's fabulous game room.

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There is much within the typical college party environment that makes it difficult to obtain meaningful consent: loud music, copious alcohol, grinding dances, etc. Matters can be further complicated through gendered double standards where women have their autonomy disrespected. In the stoplight party, participants are supposed to indicate consent through the color they wear green means advance consent to sex, red means no consent, and yellow allows for uncertainty. Since sexual consent cannot be given in advance, these stoplight parties highlight either a deep confusion about what consent requires or insufficient care about consent. Rocha argues that morality requires avoiding problematic party practices and developing better practices for obtaining consent. Rocha also explores whether a phone app may help with this work. This is a preview of subscription content, log in via an institution to check access.

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I want to explain this topic in depth because I get asked some variation of the following question several times per week: How do I get laid at a party? How to get a girl at a party? How do I hook up with lots of women at parties? How to get off with someone at a party?

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How to hook up responsibly at the office Christmas party

Hookup culture is one that accepts and encourages casual sex encounters, including one-night stands and other related activity, without necessarily including emotional intimacy , bonding or a committed relationship. Most research on hookups has been focused on U. The rise of hookups, a form of casual sex , has been described by evolutionary biologist Justin Garcia and others as a "cultural revolution" that had its beginnings in the s. The sexual revolution of the s brought a loosening of sexual morals which allowed for sex to become uncoupled from relationships and non-marital sex to become more socially acceptable. Support for sexual freedom became increasingly popular as new ideas and beliefs evolved about the positive and negative aspects of engaging in sexual intercourse.

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