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LoginBy Jackie Pilossoph , Founder, Divorced Girl Smiling, the place to find trusted, vetted divorce professionals, a podcast, website and mobile app. There are a few different instances that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out my ex was dating my friend. When I found out my ex was dating my friend, I seriously felt like I was going to go insane with anger. Here was a woman who I thought was a really good friend. We had gotten together a few times and I had told her things—personal things about my ex and our relationship, why I was getting divorced, etc. I shared things with her and trusted her.
Sometimes when you develop feelings they happen to be for your friend's ex. But, pursuing these feelings might not always be worth it. Some friends might be cool with you dating their ex, but other friends may feel it's crossing the line.
You never think anything could breakup you and your best friend, but you could be wrong. Everyone has unspoken rules or guidelines around what is and is not okay to do in their friendship, otherwise known as bro or girl code. These guidelines might be as harmless as not giving unsolicited advice to more serious deal breakers like not abandoning your intoxicated friend at a party. While we can all agree the ex-files is not territory we should be steering into, sometimes life happens and we fall for people unexpectedly.
Woe Is Me! I understood, and decided to move on. After this, my best friend and he started growing closer while I grew distant. Later, while we were all on a trip together, she invited him into our room and the two made out while I was sleeping on the same bed. That was the stamp on their relationship — I never confronted them but there are days when I really want to take revenge.
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