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LoginOne of our readers has fallen for the guy she was having casual sex with this summer. Now she'd like for their hookup to grow into a relationship. Let's discuss. What does date night then become? How do you make a casual hookup into something better? This is tricky and I'll explain why , but turning a hookup into a relationship is possible. I mean how often do we make plans that don't turn out how we imagined?
It can be near impossible to know what to call the person you're "seeing" read: sleeping with but not really "dating" read: attending family functions with. Are they your boo? Your date? Your "special friend? A casual hookup is a sexual relationship that only exists for fulfilling sexual needs.
Knowing the answer prevents later heartbreak. Sometimes this dance lasts minutes, and sometimes it lasts months or years. Of course, we try to make our intentions known, but we often fail. Neither does never being the one to text first, or liking other girls' Insta pics, or bringing up your ex constantly although that is definitely an effective way to prevent serious relationships.
The girl i want to date is intelligent and funny. Generally when you just hook up with someone, you get along with them well enough and find them pleasant to be around, but, speaking only for myself, you just know that there are larger compatibility issues that would prevent a relationship from thriving. These issues could be practical, such as living very far away or working odd hours, or they could be personal, such as knowing the other person has an incompatible set of life goals she may want to be a world traveler, you may want to settle down. The girl I want to date has a vagina and a brain, the girl I want to hook up with must only need the former.
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