Dating married coworker

My office romance turned into a marriage — here are 15 rules for dating a coworker

My morning started after my husband headed out the door and I Google d "how to stop obsessing over a married man" and stumbled onto your blog. I read the letter and response form the woman who was married with a child and obsessing over a man she'd met only three times but with whom she'd had extensive media contact with. My problem is a bit different. I am obsessed with a man who I work with regularly, who is responsible for overseeing our department's education and clinical coordination hospital setting. I've been married nine years and have two beautiful sons. Our marriage has been rocky off and on because of my husband's depression, which had deepened over the last nine months to the point where I'd rather be at work than at home. So there's your first clue! I hadn't felt valued at home for some time when my new coworker was hired.

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I love her and truly believe our marriage is good. There is a chemistry and spark with her that is invigorating. What I want to know is whether this is normal for a married man to feel this way about someone else? There will always be other people who you find attractive or intriguing. The important consideration is how much you allow yourself to indulge in that space and why. Lori: When we find ourselves drawn to someone like a moth to an inferno, the appeal often has very little to do with them. She makes you feel desirable, intriguing or smart and lights you up in a way that perhaps your wife used to earlier in your relationship.

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Years ago, I had a summer job on a small cruise ship. One day, one of my male coworkers hit on me in a semi-respectful manner. I didn't feel threatened; I just felt like he was interested and expressed that.

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How to Approach an Office Romance (and How Not To)

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