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LoginA curious thing about obsession is that it sometimes sets in with hardly any encouragement. Occasionally, the people who occupy our minds are not the people we know well, but mysterious individuals who burst into our lives for a short period and then move on just as quickly. At its worst, this infatuation with an elusive date can transition to becoming limerence. The psychology of becoming infatuated with a casual date links into some deep drives around uncertainty, insecurity and attachment. The main factors that make it difficult to get over someone you barely dated are frustration over not knowing why it went wrong, the unfulfilled promise of idealised romance, and a sense of unfinished business. How these particular psychological triggers affect you will relate to your own attachment style , but that is not the whole story. There are fundamental features of neuroscience at work too.
You found a new girl and it only took a couple weeks. Four short weeks from untangling a life of living together, shared bills and hopes for the future before I was holding hands and making promises to someone else. But with a rare form of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome and the impending concern over turning 33, it felt like my eggs were running drastically low. So, with the approval of my ex, I whacked myself on dating apps and swiped endlessly.
Some people wish to not fall in love, " I don't want to fall in love anymore" while some question why they're struggling in falling in love or forming intimate relationships with other people. You might see the love of those around you in the world and desire the same type of connection with someone in your own life.
If it weren't for the circumstances, they could've been perfect. Kendra Cherry, MS, is a psychosocial rehabilitation specialist, psychology educator, and author of the "Everything Psychology Book. Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a really rough situation to find yourself in. Even though it seems like this person checks all the boxes, it feels like the entire universe is conspiring to keep you apart.
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