Dating a separated man with baggage

Dating a separated man who is going through divorce any tip?

When you find out a guy has been married before, do you hit the brakes? Worry that he may have too much…baggage? I tell you what: You should be far more afraid of the dudes with zero baggage. I personally have never trusted someone who travels a little too light. You want a real grown-up man?

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I was newly single and in my mid-twenties, and after weeks of being told that it was time to put myself back out there, I decided that there was no harm in using Tinder. That was my first mistake, especially since I hadn't been in the dating game since before Tinder even existed. It's safe to assume that most people can present themselves in a way that looks normal on Tinder. It's easy to whip up a few seemingly innocuous lines, slap your most flattering photos up there and swipe away. If you come across as a normal human being and not an over-sexualized creep during the first conversation, well, then you are already ahead of the curve. Nathan was hot.

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There are many reasons to avoid dating a divorced man. Did you know that second marriages are more likely to end in divorce than first marriages? Have you heard about second-wife syndrome? Divorce leaves so-called hidden scars of grief, anger, and failure. If invisible baggage is not enough of a burden, a divorced man must also shoulder legal obligations.

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Baggage Claim: Why You Shouldn’t Date A Separated Man

Things happen and not all marriages work out. People separate for one of two reasons: Because they think that some time and distance can give them some objectivity with a view to possibly working things out; or because they have already decided that the marriage is over and intend to divorce. The first presents a problem because he is still emotionally tied to his marriage and it is unresolved. He has a lot of baggage and one of the requirements of being in a relationship is that you are emotionally available and ready. It is impossible for him to be.

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