British dating etiquette

British Quirks in the Dating World

Britain has its own unique style when it comes to dating, influenced by a mixture of tradition and modernity. Understanding these idiosyncrasies can offer a captivating look into the local culture and, by extension, the human condition itself. Photo by Sean Stratton on Unsplash. In Britain, pubs are more than just drinking establishments. These venues serve as communal gathering spots and often act as the backdrop for initial dates. Unlike other countries where coffee shops or restaurants might be the go-to places for dates, British culture places a higher social importance on pubs. This is not to say that dinner dates are uncommon, but rather, the pub atmosphere offers a relaxed setting conducive to getting to know someone.

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When I was 18 years old I used to believe there is no way one could ever date successfully a person from a different culture. Now the reality is as the world is becoming increasingly borderless intercultural, inter-racial couples are on the way of becoming the norm and that is in my opinion a great thing. I think we should never segregate ourselves based on race, religion, nationality, culture nor any media, family or peer influenced limitations other than choosing the person that genuinely makes us happy. Is interesting however to see how our own cultures impact the way we perceive love and dating particularly. And while dating someone raised in a completely different culture can be the most enriching experience it comes with many challenges as you go deeper into the relationship and realize how the person has such a different perspective of life, of certain habits, view of relationships, values of family, traditions, manners, food and the list goes on. That is why I always jokingly say, nobody cares to meet an international etiquette consultant until the day they have to meet the parents of their loved one.

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You get home, get a cup of tea or wine, and then decide to ask one of your single friends to come keep you company. The two of you get chatting about your past short-lived romances. Culturally, Brits are known for being more reserved than some other nationalities. We often avoid openly sharing our emotions in fear of being seen as weak. Brits also like to keep their displays of affection private.

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Dating manners across different cultures

Jo Bryant. As the experts tell us, dating success lies in finding the perfect mix of chemistry and compatibility, but many of us will date quite a few frogs until we find our better half. Some good modern dating etiquette, however, can help smooth the way for a better dating experience and help to get things off to the best possible start. If you are doing the asking and organising, tell your date clearly what you have planned and, importantly, when and where to meet.

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