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LoginIn consensual relationships, no legislation or common law rule prohibits office romances. For employees who are at the same level, a relationship is typically less concerning to employers, unless the relationship or its breakdown starts affecting the workplace, in which case, various issues may arise. That said, concerns can arise where there is a power imbalance between the members of a couple. A simple perception of such issues, even if unfounded, can cause problems for staff morale. Furthermore, questions sometimes arise as to whether a relationship between a boss and their subordinate can truly be consensual, given the power imbalance, and the pressure the subordinate may feel to engage in the relationship or risk harm to their career. These issues can, and should, be very concerning to employers. So what can be done about it? A clear policy setting out what is expected of employees when they enter into consensual relationships can help alleviate some of these concerns. Such a policy should address when a relationship must be reported and to whom, and address how conflicts of interest, or perceived conflicts of interest will be managed for example, clearly stating there can be no reporting relationship between the members of the couple. The policy should also set out that discipline will flow from a breach of the policy.
According to surveys, a quarter of American workers now say they have merrily dipped their pen in the company ink. Fifteen percent say the person they dated was their boss, notes CareerBuilder , a popular job site. If these firings are any indication, the rules of dating up or down are likely to evolve in the MeToo era. These changes have been attributed to the rise of the third-wheel in the workplace, i. The stronger the prohibition on workplace fraternization, the more likely companies will maintain their retention rate. Your colleagues are still going to cluck their tongue, and the HR might make one of you resign from the position.
Question : My colleague at work is having a sexual relationship with our boss. I know that is the case because I have been at her apartment and have seen them together. I expressed my concern to my friend, but nothing changed. Then I took it on myself to talk to our boss, telling him how I feel and how their relationship was hurting morale at work. Shortly after that, I took a cut in pay, and was assigned a position I had no experience for. Shortly after that, my boss hired his brother-in-law to take over my new position.
Eight years ago my friend Tina sat down next to a quiet colleague named Alex. The two got chatting and things rapidly developed from a friendly co-worker relationship to something more. Love in the workplace is not uncommon.
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6/28/2024
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