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The Minority Report - Online Dating for Asian Men

Looking for dating advice for Asian guys? Sometimes dating as an Asian man in the US can feel like a romantic death sentence. To be clear, Asian women and men have very different experiences. According to a OkCupid study , Asian men are the least desirable race among OkCupid users , with Asian women landing at the opposite end of the scale, as the most desirable of all races. Remember that you are a unique individual defined by much more than your race. What that translates to is millions of black, white, Asian, and Latino men that not once wooed a woman in All races are being negatively impacted. It seems paradoxical that in an epoch where I can make a call to anyone in the world without even pressing a button, Americans are lonelier than ever. This lonliness epidemics is impacting millions of people. Sure you could graduate to the next level of love, but it may take an eternity -or longer- to do so.

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A decade ago, my plans for coming to China included teaching for a year, two Dating was not part of my plan, so when it happened, I was completely unprepared for it. Looking back, I would have loved to know what I was getting myself into or at least some advice on navigating Chinese dating culture.

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I would say I am, on a good day, medium attractive. I am somewhere between Brad Pitt and a blobfish. Dating as an Asian man in America is, to put it simply, not fun. Asian men do the absolute worst on dating apps. Other research has also confirmed the bias against Asian men on dating apps. And it made me feel invisible every single day.

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Posted August 10, Reviewed by Abigail Fagan. What adds to the frustration is these men have followed the rules of the family by holding off dating until after they received their degrees and are settled in good jobs with a stable income. But in not acknowledging the obvious, they do themselves a disservice by being blind to the social forces that statistically speaking will lead to fewer matches. Asian men that try to date white women often find it harder due to the stereotypes of Asian men as being weak, shy , and lacking initiative. Since online dating has gone mainstream, I try to emphasize to my Asian male clients that they can not rely on dating apps as the sole means of meeting women.

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